One of the biggest challenges we face is when do we “invest” limited resources on one individual versus allocating those same funds to benefit all. Smarter minds than mine have debated this for years. Add the Indian cultural values the group much more than the individual which is most times exactly the opposite for we westerners.

Last month while in India we had one of opportunities to choose. This young girl had developed a skin disease that led to her mother abandoning her and relinquishing all of her parental rights. The orphanage did not have the discretionary funds for her to see a specialist to determine if there was even any treatment.

After a brief discussion a couple of our team members wanted to advocate for her not knowing if any treatment would be helpful but a medical exam needed to be the first step.

Earlier this week I received an update. She was responding to the treatment and the disease seemed to be responding to the medicine prescribed. Maybe more importantly her emotional well-being had significantly improved. Her smile had returned and her hope was renewed.

This time we chose one and I think it was the right choice!

We first met this remarkable woman last month when we were visiting a remote village in Tamil Nadu, India. She is a woman of great courage and influence even though all of the “cultural markers” in her life would tell you otherwise.

First, she is a woman. Many times and especially in remote villages of Tamil Nadu are not valued even by their immediate families. Young girls are the property of their parents and their future will be determined and marriage arranged by their parents. They have little to no voice.

Second, Esther has never attended school. She is illiterate and cannot write her name. Her parents were of the poorest of the poor and never saw the value of sending her to school. So, as a young girl she spent most days collecting firewood and fetching water.

Third, she has never been married. Many girls in India are never given a last name. When young they are often referred to as “the daughter of…” and when their marriage is arranged they become “the wife of… from…” Her value is never her own it is derived by her caste and family status.

Finally, Esther is a Christian. In a country where the vast majority of people are Hindu, becoming a Christ-follower comes at a very high cost. Most times you will not only loose your birth and property rights but your family will disown you.

Yet, in spite of, or maybe it is because of these factors, Esther has become one of the most influential people in her village as well as four neighboring villages. She is a pastor who shares her faith by asking others to read to her scripture and then quietly explains to them what they have just read. Esther demonstrates her faith by rescuing unwanted baby girls from certain death by pleading with their birth parents not to kill them.

She does this by caring for her friends and neighbors right where they are but loves them to not leave them there.

This is why we were so excited to have the opportunity to partner with Esther and start our Prenatal & Newborn Care program in this area. Our surveys have revealed that there are hundreds of baby girls killed each and every year just in this region alone. Most just like Esther except she was allowed to live.

I can think of no one more equipped to turn this culture upside down than Esther. We have so much to learn from her.

Last month we had the privilege of meeting Rahda and hearing her story. Each morning she rises and awakens her daughter so that they can both do their daily chores around her parents home.

Rahda Shares a Photo of Her Daughter.

Then Rahda jumps on her bicycle and rides her daughter to her school before riding 30 minutes to Bethel Community College. At 3:30 PM she rides back to her daughter’s school just in time to meet her as school ends for the day.

Next month Rahda will start her field work at a local hospital and in June will earn her degree as a nursing assistant. At that time she will have the opportunity to work at a hospital or local health clinic and earn up to 3 times as much as should could in the textile factory.

Watch her tell her amazing story of courage and determination here.

We always attempt to leverage existing resources to maximize change for the Indian girl child. Even in the most rural villages in India you will find a primary government school offering education to children through the 5th standard (grade). In most villages we have been able to increase the number of girls attending school by drilling a bore well in the community. Our agreement. Everyone gets free and clean drinking water – the girls get to attend school because they no longer need to walk to neighboring villages for water each day.

Most Indian girls that are allowed to attend primary school are not allowed to continue past 5th standard because the secondary school (6th thru 12th standard) is typically only in a larger village that may be several miles away. Even if a public bus might stop in the village many parents are not “interested” in paying for bus tokens for their girls to continue their education.

So, WE BUY BIKES. Each girl that graduates from the 5th standard with good marks is given a brand new bicycle so she can ride to school. They now have a new-found freedom and the chance to leverage their education for a much better tomorrow.

Thanks to Dr. Vipin Kalia (TRP board member) and his connections in India we have the opportunity to visit with an Indian doctor working in Haryana, India. This state has one of the highest rates of female gendercide in all of India.

It is our hope to be able to share our successes so that they too can implement the Prenatal & Newborn Care initiative in villages in Haryana.

Will keep you posted!

In this one small village where many baby girls are killed shortly after their birth The Rhema Project is implementing a short-term (Prenatal & Newborn Care/Foster Care) programs with long-term initiatives (Education/Economic Opportunity).

Our first step was to drill a bore-well. Not only did the well provide fresh, clean drinking water but it “took away” the excuse for parents not sending their daughters to the local school. If your daughter needs to walk to another village to fill a water jug she can not attend school. The village well simply allows her to complete her task in a few minutes instead of several hours – giving her time to attend school.

Recently we celebrated the graduation of 5 girls from the village school that provides education through the 5th standard (5th grade). These girls had two options. First, stop their formal education and probably be married in the next few years. Or, find a way to continue their education that was available in a nearby village approximately 5 miles away.

A brand new bicycle now only celebrates her achievements but encourages her to continue her education.

Education has both an intrinsic worth but a practical financial value. Education allows her to understand who she is and gives her skills that can be used in the marketplace. Every year a girl is able to attend school in India increases her annual earning power by 15 to 20%. Completing high school doubles her income.

She’s the Change We Wish to See in India!

Three years ago she was rescued from under a sticker bush where she had been thrown by her birth parents. She was moments from death. Literally, a pack of wild dogs were circling her when a pastor’s wife walked by and heard her faint cries. Today she celebrates her 3rd birthday complete with cake and presents. She is well loved by and completely cared for by her foster family. She is their daughter.

Because of our donor support we were able to give and demonstrate her value. Our mission – that every girl child in India would be able to celebrate her birthday with bangles, bright dresses and lots of cake!

She’s the Change We Wish to See in India!

Three and one-half years ago almost all baby girls (other than first born) did not survive in this rural village in South India. For the “lucky” surviving baby girls their parents did not celebrate their birth or life and typically dressed them in very non-discript clothing so they would not experience discrimination. No long hair. No bangles. No pierced ears. No dresses.

The Rhema Project first drilled a well (community need) and then launched its first Prenatal & Newborn Care Initiative in this village.

1. Expectant mothers received daily milk and vitamin allotments.
2. Each month these women were taken for a prenatal exam and were treated to a meal at an Indian restaurant.
3. Our staff began to share the value of all babies and how to care for them.
4. When a baby girl was born we celebrated her life with small gifts. Village families always celebrate the birth of boys.
5. Families with baby girls were allowed to continue on daily milk and vitamin program for an additional six months.

Today, the health of all newborns has been greatly improved. Parents are pushing back the cultural discrimination of baby girls and are demonstrating and expressing their love for their daughters.

Today, the ratio of baby girls to boys has returned to near normal levels. Fathers are seen carrying and caring for their daughters. These little girls now are dressed in dresses, their hair is longer and many have bangles on their wrists and ankles.

Plus the village primary school has gone from an enrollment of 70 boys and 30 girls to nearly equal attendance of girls and boys.

We are replicating our Prenatal & Newborn Care Initiative in nearby villages with the goal of expanding into many more villages in 2013. For more information on our Prenatal & Newborn Care Initiative or how your family, church or friends can fund the transformation of a village culture and change the fate of hundreds of baby girls, email us at info@therhemaproject.org.

On Sunday, August 12th The Rhema Project was the premier sponsor for Indianapolis’ India Day Celebration. Nearly 800 people celebrated India’s independence day (Americans think 4th of July) at Monument Circle in downtown Indianapolis.

Our goal is to encourage Indian families living in the states to join with us on the mission to end female gendercide in their home country. Many are 2nd and 3rd generation families living in America.

These are two of my favorite photos taken during the event. The first of a young Indian girl thanking our volunteers for the Indian doll handcrafted by Indian women rescued from the streets of Chennai by one of our partner organizations.

“She looks like me!”

The second photo is of a young Indian women that stopped by our booth to learn more about The Rhema Project and our mission to end female gendercide in her home country. When every Indian women has the opportunity and hope for a better tomorrow we will have been successful.

Sunday, August 12, 2012
10 am to 3 pm
Monument Circle
Downtown Indianapolis

We invite you to celebrate India’s independence day with us. Traditional Indian dance, singing and food from both north and south India.

The Rhema Project is a premier sponsor of India Day 2012 and we will be have a sponsor tent where people can learn more about our mission as well as purchase items handcrafted by Indian women employed by one of our in-country field partners.

Join us!