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The Genocide of Indians Daughters – News Report

The Genocide of Indian Daughters – Inside Story Jan 11, 2013
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Supreme Court judges in India have summoned the health secretaries in seven states over a worrying fall in the number of young girls in India.

They are demanding details about clinics flouting the Pre-Conception and Pre-Natal Diagnostic Techniques Act – to determine the sex of unborn babies – with potentially fatal consequences.

The judges are blaming what they call rampant foeticide and infanticide, and they say the mindset of parents and society need to change.

“The people [district medical officers] who are supposed to be enforcing the [Pre-Conception and Pre-Natal Diagnostic Techniques Act] they themselves have the same patriarchal mindset and they don’t feel that it’s wrong to kill a girl child in the desire for a boy, naturally they won’t go and prosecute anybody. Add to it corruption [within the medical profession].”

- Mitu Khurana, a pediatrician and a women’s rights activist

The UN children’s charity UNICEF says the culture of favouring males in India is costing the lives of millions of young girls.

The agency says more than 2,000 illegal abortions are being carried out every single day, and it is dramatically altering the balance of the population.

It warns: “Decades of sex determination tests and female foeticide that has acquired proportions are finally catching up with states in India. This is only the tip if the demographic and social problems confronting India in the coming years.”

Speaking in April 2011, Manmohan Singh, the Indian prime minister, called for a crusade against the widespread practice of foeticide and infanticide.

“The falling child sex ratio is an indictment of our social values. Our girls and women have done us proud in classrooms, in boardrooms and on the sports field. It is a national shame for us that despite this, female foeticide and infanticide continues.”

The 1991 Indian census showed there were 945 girls for every 1,000 boys, aged up to six. Ten years later, it dipped even further to just 914 girls for every 1,000 boys.

But that is just the average. The figures are far worse in some states.

The 2011 census found there were 830 girls for every 1,000 boys in the northern state of Haryana. It was 846 in neighbouring Punjab state. And in the national capital territory of Delhi the figure was 866.

“The main problem really is that parents don’t want girl children. As long as that underlying societal attitude continues, it’s very, very difficult especially in a country like India where all kinds of laws are not implemented properly and flouted, to find a purely legal solution to what is a societal problem.”

- Sadanand Dhume, a fellow of the American Enterprise Institute

India has very strict abortion laws. Until 1971, terminating pregnancies was only allowed if the mother’s life was at risk. Other exceptions were then allowed: for fetuses with potential birth defects; for babies conceived through rape; and for pregnancies in unmarried girls below 18.

In 1994 the government passed a new law making it illegal to use ultrasound scans to determine the sex of the baby – a crime carrying a jail term of up to three years.

So what needs to be done to change the centuries-old mindset of favouring boys?

Joining the Inside Story discussion with presenter Shiulie Ghosh are guests: Mitu Khurana, a pediatrician and a women’s rights activist; Suhas Chakma, the director of the Asian Centre for Human Rights; Sadanand Dhume, a journalist/writer and a resident fellow of the American Enterprise Institute.

Female Gendercide Report from Haryana, India

Thanks to Dr. Vipin Kalia (TRP board member) and his connections in India we have the opportunity to visit with an Indian doctor working in Haryana, India. This state has one of the highest rates of female gendercide in all of India.

It is our hope to be able to share our successes so that they too can implement the Prenatal & Newborn Care initiative in villages in Haryana.

Will keep you posted!

November is National Adoption Month in America

I am glad we highlight and celebrate the encouragement of adoption during the entire month of November. It seems November is the perfect month to not only express thanks to the adoptive paren
ts but for the joy the children have brought into their new families.

In our immediate family, I not only had the privilege of becoming Shannon and Ginger’s adoptive dad but we also have an amazing grandson that came into our family when he was first born.

This is also the opportunity we are attempting to support with The Rhema Project. As crazy as it sounds, there are good Indian families that are waiting to adopt an abandoned Indian baby girl. And, there are cradle babies that are turned away by qualified orphanages that are approved to complete domestic adoptions.

WHY? The government in its attempt to prevent corruption limits the amount an orphanage can charge for its adoptive services – it “costs” the orphanage approximately $500 more to rescue and care for the abandoned baby girl and complete and monitor the adoption process. So, the orphanage must limit the number of adoption strictly for financial reasons.

Good news. The government does not limit The Rhema Project from contributing to an orphan fund that can be then be used by the orphanage of offset the financial difference. This also reinforces our strategy that Indians must lead and “own” the solution to end the gendercide of baby girls.

During the month of November, for those wanted to share in the experience and support the adoption of an Indian baby girl to an Indian family can make a contribution (any amount) on our website (www.therhemaproject.org) or mail a charitable gift (note adoption) to The Rhema Project PO Box 10013 South Bend, IN 46680

20/20 Report on India’s Female Gendercide

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Diwali, Thanksgiving & the Easter Bunny?

Early next month, many Indians all around the world will be celebrating Diwali or Deepawali – festival of light. Traditionally celebrated by Hindus, Sikhs and Jains it has transcended its religious roots to become a cultural event much like Thanksgiving or Easter here in America.

As a Christian, I can celebrate the holiday with my Indian friends without giving up the tenants of my faith. You see, in 2012, Diwali has much more to do with the triumph of good over evil. In Christian jargon – love wins!

I found this reference extremely helpful and hopeful.

From Darkness Unto Light…

In each legend, myth and story of Deepawali lies the significance of the victory of good over evil; and it is with each Deepawali and the lights that illuminate our homes and hearts, that this simple truth finds new reason and hope. From darkness unto light — the light that empowers us to commit ourselves to good deeds, that which brings us closer to divinity. During Diwali, lights illuminate every corner of India and the scent of incense sticks hangs in the air, mingled with the sounds of fire-crackers, joy, togetherness and hope.

This is our hope and prayer for The Rhema Project. Way too many Indian baby girls are devalued and live – if even allowed to without any hope. The evils of female gendercide must be overcome with hopefulness and the conviction that babies do not need to die just because they were born a girl.

How Does a New Bike Stop Female Gendercide?

In this one small village where many baby girls are killed shortly after their birth The Rhema Project is implementing a short-term (Prenatal & Newborn Care/Foster Care) programs with long-term initiatives (Education/Economic Opportunity).

Our first step was to drill a bore-well. Not only did the well provide fresh, clean drinking water but it “took away” the excuse for parents not sending their daughters to the local school. If your daughter needs to walk to another village to fill a water jug she can not attend school. The village well simply allows her to complete her task in a few minutes instead of several hours – giving her time to attend school.

Recently we celebrated the graduation of 5 girls from the village school that provides education through the 5th standard (5th grade). These girls had two options. First, stop their formal education and probably be married in the next few years. Or, find a way to continue their education that was available in a nearby village approximately 5 miles away.

A brand new bicycle now only celebrates her achievements but encourages her to continue her education.

Education has both an intrinsic worth but a practical financial value. Education allows her to understand who she is and gives her skills that can be used in the marketplace. Every year a girl is able to attend school in India increases her annual earning power by 15 to 20%. Completing high school doubles her income.

She’s the Change We Wish to See in India!

Happy 3rd Birthday!

Three years ago she was rescued from under a sticker bush where she had been thrown by her birth parents. She was moments from death. Literally, a pack of wild dogs were circling her when a pastor’s wife walked by and heard her faint cries. Today she celebrates her 3rd birthday complete with cake and presents. She is well loved by and completely cared for by her foster family. She is their daughter.

Because of our donor support we were able to give and demonstrate her value. Our mission – that every girl child in India would be able to celebrate her birthday with bangles, bright dresses and lots of cake!

She’s the Change We Wish to See in India!

Indian Father Reflects Cultural Change

Three and one-half years ago almost all baby girls (other than first born) did not survive in this rural village in South India. For the “lucky” surviving baby girls their parents did not celebrate their birth or life and typically dressed them in very non-discript clothing so they would not experience discrimination. No long hair. No bangles. No pierced ears. No dresses.

The Rhema Project first drilled a well (community need) and then launched its first Prenatal & Newborn Care Initiative in this village.

1. Expectant mothers received daily milk and vitamin allotments.
2. Each month these women were taken for a prenatal exam and were treated to a meal at an Indian restaurant.
3. Our staff began to share the value of all babies and how to care for them.
4. When a baby girl was born we celebrated her life with small gifts. Village families always celebrate the birth of boys.
5. Families with baby girls were allowed to continue on daily milk and vitamin program for an additional six months.

Today, the health of all newborns has been greatly improved. Parents are pushing back the cultural discrimination of baby girls and are demonstrating and expressing their love for their daughters.

Today, the ratio of baby girls to boys has returned to near normal levels. Fathers are seen carrying and caring for their daughters. These little girls now are dressed in dresses, their hair is longer and many have bangles on their wrists and ankles.

Plus the village primary school has gone from an enrollment of 70 boys and 30 girls to nearly equal attendance of girls and boys.

We are replicating our Prenatal & Newborn Care Initiative in nearby villages with the goal of expanding into many more villages in 2013. For more information on our Prenatal & Newborn Care Initiative or how your family, church or friends can fund the transformation of a village culture and change the fate of hundreds of baby girls, email us at info@therhemaproject.org.

India Day Celebration/Indianapolis, IN

On Sunday, August 12th The Rhema Project was the premier sponsor for Indianapolis’ India Day Celebration. Nearly 800 people celebrated India’s independence day (Americans think 4th of July) at Monument Circle in downtown Indianapolis.

Our goal is to encourage Indian families living in the states to join with us on the mission to end female gendercide in their home country. Many are 2nd and 3rd generation families living in America.

These are two of my favorite photos taken during the event. The first of a young Indian girl thanking our volunteers for the Indian doll handcrafted by Indian women rescued from the streets of Chennai by one of our partner organizations.

“She looks like me!”

The second photo is of a young Indian women that stopped by our booth to learn more about The Rhema Project and our mission to end female gendercide in her home country. When every Indian women has the opportunity and hope for a better tomorrow we will have been successful.

India Day Celebration – Indianapolis


Sunday, August 12, 2012
10 am to 3 pm
Monument Circle
Downtown Indianapolis

We invite you to celebrate India’s independence day with us. Traditional Indian dance, singing and food from both north and south India.

The Rhema Project is a premier sponsor of India Day 2012 and we will be have a sponsor tent where people can learn more about our mission as well as purchase items handcrafted by Indian women employed by one of our in-country field partners.

Join us!

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